Where do you want to be 5 years from now, 10 years from now, or even this time next year? These places are your goal destinations and although you might know that you don’t want to be standing still in the same place as you are now, it’s not always easy to identify what your real goals are.
Many people think that setting a goal destination is having a dream that is at the far distant future, and will never be attained. This proves to be a self-fulfilling prophesy because of two things. Firstly, that the goal isn’t specifically defined enough in the first place, and secondly, it remains a remote dream waiting for action which is never initiated.
Defining your goal destination is something that you need to take some time to think carefully about. The following steps should be started on a journey to those goals:
1. Make a list of your goal destinations. Goal destinations are the things, important to you. A synonym would be “Ambitions”, which sound outside your grasp, whereas goal destinations are certainly achievable if you are willing to make efforts towards them. So what do you really want to do with your life? What are the main things that you would like to accomplish in your life? What would you really regret not doing if you suddenly found you had a limited amount of time left on the earth? Each of these things is a goal. Define each goal destination in one sentence.
If any of these goals is a stepping stone to another one of the goals, take it off this list as it isn’t a goal destination.
2. Think about the time frame
For each goal, you need to think about the time frame you’d ideally like to have accomplished this goal. This is where the 5 year, 10 year, next year plan comes into it. Some goals will have a “shelf life” because of age, health, finance, etc, whereas others will be up to you as to when you would like to achieve them by.
Now comes the more intense part of the goal destination setting - devising the planning of your journey towards arriving at each of your goal destinations. Follow the step by step plan for each of your goals individually.
Defining your goal destination is something that you need to take some time to think carefully about. The following steps should be started on a journey to those goals:
1. Make a list of your goal destinations. Goal destinations are the things, important to you. A synonym would be “Ambitions”, which sound outside your grasp, whereas goal destinations are certainly achievable if you are willing to make efforts towards them. So what do you really want to do with your life? What are the main things that you would like to accomplish in your life? What would you really regret not doing if you suddenly found you had a limited amount of time left on the earth? Each of these things is a goal. Define each goal destination in one sentence.
If any of these goals is a stepping stone to another one of the goals, take it off this list as it isn’t a goal destination.
2. Think about the time frame
For each goal, you need to think about the time frame you’d ideally like to have accomplished this goal. This is where the 5 year, 10 year, next year plan comes into it. Some goals will have a “shelf life” because of age, health, finance, etc, whereas others will be up to you as to when you would like to achieve them by.
Now comes the more intense part of the goal destination setting - devising the planning of your journey towards arriving at each of your goal destinations. Follow the step by step plan for each of your goals individually.
1. Write each goal destination at the top of a new piece of paper.
2. For each goal write down what is needed to you and don’t have now that will allow you achieve that goal.
This could be some kind of education, career change, finance, a new skill, etc. Any “stepping stone” goals you removed from part 1 of the goal destination identification process will fit into this exercise. If any of these smaller “goals” have sub-goals, go through the same process with these so that you have precise action points to work with.
3. Write down the things to complete the goal
Write down the things that you will need to do in order to complete each of the steps required to complete the goal. These items will become a check-list. Check-list is a tangible way of checking how you are progressing towards reaching your goal destinations.
4. An overview your goal destinations
Now take an overview of all your goal destinations and make a schedule of what you need to do this week, this month, this year - in order to progress along the road towards your goal destinations.
5. Write these action points on a schedule
Write these action points on a schedule so that you have definite dates on which to do things. At the end of the year, review what you have done this year, mark things off the check-lists for each goal destination and write up the schedule with the action points you need for the next year.
Although it may take you several years to, for example, get the promotion you desire because you first need to get the MBA which means getting a job with more money to allow you to finance a part-time degree course, you will ultimately be successful in achieving your goal destination because you have planned out not only what you want, but how to get it, and have been pro-active towards achieving it. Congratulations!
2. For each goal write down what is needed to you and don’t have now that will allow you achieve that goal.
This could be some kind of education, career change, finance, a new skill, etc. Any “stepping stone” goals you removed from part 1 of the goal destination identification process will fit into this exercise. If any of these smaller “goals” have sub-goals, go through the same process with these so that you have precise action points to work with.
3. Write down the things to complete the goal
Write down the things that you will need to do in order to complete each of the steps required to complete the goal. These items will become a check-list. Check-list is a tangible way of checking how you are progressing towards reaching your goal destinations.
4. An overview your goal destinations
Now take an overview of all your goal destinations and make a schedule of what you need to do this week, this month, this year - in order to progress along the road towards your goal destinations.
5. Write these action points on a schedule
Write these action points on a schedule so that you have definite dates on which to do things. At the end of the year, review what you have done this year, mark things off the check-lists for each goal destination and write up the schedule with the action points you need for the next year.
Although it may take you several years to, for example, get the promotion you desire because you first need to get the MBA which means getting a job with more money to allow you to finance a part-time degree course, you will ultimately be successful in achieving your goal destination because you have planned out not only what you want, but how to get it, and have been pro-active towards achieving it. Congratulations!
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